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The patient sat herself in the comfortable chair and said while sighing: “I do not have good orgasms!

Hmmm, what are good orgasms?

We asked her to explain, and she said: “I can orgasm from manual stimulation to clitoris but they are little orgasms.  I can also orgasm from oral sex but they are not big like the ones from a vibrator.  I want to have the same powerful orgasms from all activities as from the vibrator but I do not want to be addicted to the vibrator!

What is wrong with loving the vibrator? Just remember that the clitoris needs lubrication, and that vaginal insertion is not a must.

Also, we reminded her, that it is normal to have small and/or big orgasms!  Not bad considering that many women cannot shut down their thinking minds enough to even get to having an orgasm…

The patient was not happy, not even when we reminded her that the mechanical energy and speed of a vibrator cannot be matched by a hand nor a tongue.

We dug deeper and found out that the issue has turned into an obsession, which is stopping her relationship from moving forward because of this unrealistic sexual expectation.

Sad, isn’t?

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  • al says:

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    MY G/F doesnt like the viberator and prefers my tongue to bring her to mind blowing orgasms. of course we have to be alone in the house with no distractions cause well from my 40 plus years of sex with women their minds are easily distracted with thoughts and that can ruin all orgasms whether from viberators, tongues, or hands. girls you need to put your mind in nuetral when you want to have an orgasm!

  • Sandie says:

    I understand completely about the big and small orgasms. I have had the same experience that you describe. What I found was important was to alternate activity with my husband and with the vibrator so I didn’t become some used to the increased stimulation of the vibrator which, as you say, cannot match.

  • former patient says:

    Since my treatment at WTC, I have not been with a partner but I have been using a vibrator regularly and it is one of the best investments I have ever made! I am a lot less desperate for intimate company when I can provide such a great pleasure for myself.