The declining estrogen levels from menopause onward have a profound effect on the vagina, making it thinner, less elastic, drier, and more prone to chafing irritation & bleeding. These are inevitable outcome that all women experience as they go through the menopause transition, and into postmenopause.
- My vagina had become dry and lost all elasticity; I wanted to reclaim it
- As I entered menopause, sexual intercourse became progressively more uncomfortable
Not all women will enter menopause the ‘natural‘ way; some may get into menopause
- Surgically, the result of the removal of both ovaries (Oophorectomy) that is often a component of total hysterectomy, or
- Induced, the results of certain medications that stop ovarian (estrogen) production, i.e. Lupron that is used for the treatment of Endometriosis or breast cancer, or
- As a result of pelvic/vaginal radiation for female cancer
The functional outcome of the menopausal changes include
- Feeling dry, pinchy, chafy
- The genital lips may ‘stick together’
- Insufficient natural lubrication
- Intercourse is progressively uncomfortable/painful (dyspareunia)
- Intercourse is no longer possible (secondary vaginismus)
- Gynecologic exams are progressively difficult or no longer possible (secondary vaginismus)
- Urinary frequency and urgency — the lower 1/3 of the vagina and the urethra share a common wall that is equally affected
- Emotional and relationship distress
- For the single woman – doubts about dating: “who would want me without intercourse?”
- Loss of sexual interest (libido) – who wants pain when sex should be fun and pleasurable?
Other factors may compound the problem:
- Dry indoor heat in cold climates
- Insufficient hydration (drinking)
- The drying effect of certain medications such as anti-anxiety, anti-depression, antibiotics, anti-fungal (for vaginal infections), allergy
- Excessive hygiene, including hot water on the genitals
- Prolonged disuse (no partner for intercourse)
- Sjogren’s Syndrome
The sad news is that medical and public awareness about the menopausal & postmenopausal vagina is poor, forcing women to accept the limitations as inevitable, to suffer in silence, and to experience relationship tensions or breakdowns.
The good news is that a sound restorative program should allow most menopausal and postmenopausal women to regain vaginal functions with little or no disruption. You can liken the aging vagina to an old baseball glove that needs oil rubbed in to restore its shape, softness, elasticity and function.
How can we help you?
- Our experts will carefully assess your limitations and will tailor a treatment plan specific to your needs
- We will restore all vaginal penetrations (the hands-on aspect of the treatment)
- We will address vaginal and urological health
- We offer sexual counseling and/or sex therapy
- Emotional support is always included
- We are available if you want us to counseling you and partner
- The course of treatment is relatively short – about 4-7 sessions – and the outcome is positive (read the testimonials, above)
- The treatment is typically covered by insurance — read our Insurance page for details
We hope that you will not only take care of your vagina during these life phases, but also share this webpage with your friends and healthcare provider/s — spread the word!
Contact us for further information, or to schedule an appointment.