The best gifts you can get are the ones you have been longing*

Posted by womentc in Vaginismus Blog 10 Apr 2014

The best gifts you can get are the ones you have been longing for a long time. And the most precious gifts are those you can’t buy in a shop just like that.

I had vaginismus. It was not my choice – it was a major obstacle in my life that I wished to get rid of since I realized I had it. I cursed it and I despaired of it so many times. I asked myself so often why I could not be like all the other billions of women on this planet. Now that I am cured, I am like them. I can enjoy my sexuality and the fact that I have so many more choices in my life.

But, there is one thing that all these other women do not experience: I see the ability of having intercourse as a great gift. I worked so hard for it, and every single time I have intercourse I appreciate it. Everyone else has it for free – they take it for granted and see it as something ordinary, something you just do. For me it is always going to stay something special, great and magical, something I am bursting with happiness and pride about. And that’s the greatest gift I ever received. It will stay with me for the rest of my life.

So if there is one good thing you can say about vaginismus, it is this gift you keep in your heart when you are cured. And every woman who has vaginismus can look forward to enjoy this very special gift*.

T.K.

* Results may vary from person to person

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