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Clitoris & lubrication

The clitoris is the female’s organ of sexual arousal.  We can only see its tip – glans clitoris – which is situated above the urethral and vaginal openings.  In other words, the clitoris IS NOT inside the vagina, a common misconception.

The clitoris is shaped like a wishbone with its ‘legs’ (right crus + left crus = crura) extending down on either side of the vagina and containing spongy tissue (corpus cavernosum) that engorges with blood upon arousal, similar to penile erection.  The skin fold covering the glans clitoris – clitoral hood, or prepuce – is the female’s analog to the male’s foreskin.  See the illustration below for details.

Women need clitoral stimulation for sexual arousal, may it be by

  • Direct contact (most common), i.e. manual sex, oral sex, vibrator, dry sex, etc.
  • Indirect contact (less common), when the base of the penis during intercourse rubs the clitoris just the right way, leading to what is known as a ‘vaginal orgasm.

Many do not realize that, unlike the vagina, the clitoris is not self-lubricating and thus is prone to chafing irritations upon prolonged contact (the saliva during oral sex will usually provide sufficient lubrication).  We have seen patients who got so irritated that they began experiencing painful intercourse because of it.

So, ladies — do not hesitate to apply lubricant (flavored?) to the clitoris, especially if you are prone to irritations!

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vaginismus specialist Dr. Ditza Katz team member Women's Therapy Center
  • tutaj November 25, 2018 at 9:42 pm / Reply

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  • Sandie Herron July 4, 2010 at 3:51 pm / Reply

    Wow! I had no idea. I feel a bit stupid, but I always thought the clitoris was just a little structure that engorged with blood and sort of got an erection during stimulation, and that was it. I had no idea that it went down around the openings liks a wishbone. What a great analogy, and what a great description. It makes tons of sense in what I’ve felt.

    Again, I am so glad you are here to set us women straight about our OWN bodies!

    Sandie in Florida

  • didi crawford July 2, 2010 at 8:55 pm / Reply

    Great website. I have never seen underlying structures of the clitoris (and I am a nursing student) untill now. Thank you!

  • ALIREZA January 31, 2010 at 12:30 pm / Reply


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