Is it really about how long a time it lasts, or about the level of satisfaction it brings?
For women out there: can your vagina handle ‘the longer the better’ intercourse without chafing irritation?
And what about the fact that most women are not aroused during sexual intercourse — how long would they want to have the penis inside them? Could be a very long laundry list…
Our clinical experience suggests that most sexual encounters follow a pattern of satisfying the woman first, followed by intercourse for the male’s satisfaction. In that common scenario, women do prefer a short & sweet intercourse.
However, we can see a desire for a longer lasting intercourse when couples engage in simultaneous stimulation: ‘working on her’ while his penis is inside her and thrusting just enough to maintain arousal, timing it to climax in tandem with her.