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Intercourse – how often?

Posted by womentc in Sexual Dysfunction, Vaginismus Blog 05 Mar 2012

The frequency of intercourse depends on the woman’s preferences, on having an available partner, on the style of the relationship, on medical/religious involvements, etc.

The vagina itself, being the sturdy body part that it is, can handle frequent intercourse as long as the woman listens to it = ‘vaginal management:’

  • Lubrication: use lubricants if/when you feel the slightest of chafing/heat spot sensation to avoid irritation and/or emotional distress;
  • Arousal: not mandatory for sexual intercourse to take place as penetration should be available regardless.
  • Repeat intercourse in the same day/hour: go for it if you’d like but mind your comfort and use lubrication as needed.
  • Preferences: say NO if you do not want to do it again so soon!  With the penis being a visitor in your vagina, it is about your choice.