You fight, argue, quarrel, disagree — and then he wants sex to make up. Do you (ladies) go for it?
Our clinical observation suggests a clear difference between the genders: women will not usually engage sexually if they are still upset, while men will opt for sex as a bridge back to ‘togetherness’ and a resolution.
Commentary: if you remember this difference, you will not further deepen the adversity by arguing over her reluctance/his interest. Just sort things out between you and create a positive mood for moving on.